You can make a thousand lists - as long as you’re harping on what you don’t have, you’ll not be able to manifest anything on the list.
Focus on things you love not things you hate.
Focus on things that are funny, not things that are sad.
Focus on that’s going right, not what’s going wrong.
Focus on knowing that you can be or do or have ANYTHING, not the HOW or the WHEN.
A neighbor from from down the street walks her dog every day to my yard to do its business. Actually, it started in my yard but then I’d catch her in the act a few times and gave her a “look” so that stopped but now she brings it to the strip between the sidewalk and the street in front of my house which I guess belongs to the city so I can’t do anything about it but I still have to maintain that grass.
This is making me really angry because it is clearly intentional on her part. So I was doing really well with being positive and manifesting good things and now because of this I’m in a bad feeling place again. I can’t confront her about it but how do I make her stop somehow or handle this in a positive way?
Readers: Do you have any insight?
You are right on the money. I’m in a really good place right now and things are escalating faster and faster for me by the day.
Thanks for vocalizing your observation - you are able to read people’s energies from a distance - well done my friend.
You don’t have a lot of things - are you focused on all of them? No.
If you want a car but don’t currently have one, then focus on what you’re car is going to feel like and look like. What color is it? What kind is it? etc…..
Be appreciative when others give you a ride or when you ride the bus. Don’t be upset that you’re riding the bus because you don’t have a car, be grateful that you can use that time to check your Facebook or visualize the car you want.
Accept that where you are right now is not having a car - be OK with that, because once you are OK with it - then you can move forward in the direction you want.
But if you’re fighting against where you are, not accepting it - then you’re resisting where you are and what you resist……persists.
Thank you so much for sharing your story!
Above is the emotional guidance scale. It is difficult if not impossible to jump from say Anger to Hopefulness without going through the steps in between.
Abraham Hicks published a book on how to start from a bad feeling place and work your way up to a good feeling place.
Below is the link to listen to it on YouTube. I HIGHLY encourage you to listen to this over the next few days.
I encourage EVERYONE to listen to this actually.
At times it starts to feel repetitive, but it’s in the repetition that we learn how to climb up from bad feelings to great feelings on our own, by ourselves. It’s the HOW TO FEEL BETTER - STEP BY STEP.
LOVE this idea - I’m game!
Readers would you submit to me things that you have manifested or how your life/thoughts have changed since learning about LOA?
You can send anonymously - or send in fan mail (for longer stories) and I’ll repost. If you send fan mail but wish to remain anonymous - just say so.
THANKS for the idea!
You’re over thinking it darlin’.
If it makes you feel good - you’re creating good things.
If it makes you feel bad - you’re creating bad things.
Your actions of picking out the clothes, made you feel good - but your over thinking and over analyzing of that action made you feel bad - so the vibration you sent was mixed.
The momentum of your negative thoughts cancelled out the momentum of your positive action so there wasn’t much movement towards your ultimate goal.
So when you feel inspired to do something and it makes you feel good to do it - that’s all you need to know. THEN when you think about it the action felt good and the thought about it felt good as well - all positive, all going in the direction you want to go.
ONE: Changing how you feel is as easy and as difficult as changing what you’re focusing on and thinking about.
Right now you’re focused on your mother telling you that you have a shitty personality - NOTHING about that will make you feel better.
TWO: Understand that your mothers opinion is just that - her opinion. It doesn’t mean you REALLY have a shitty personality, it means in the moment she said it - that was her perception based upon how she felt at that one moment. Doesn’t mean it’s true, just means it was true for her in that one moment.
Don’t take the opinions of others personally. Their opinion most often has MORE to do with THEM and LESS to do with you.
THREE: That being said…..in order to feel better, you have to stop focusing on crap that makes you feel bad and start focusing on things that make you laugh or smile.
When you’re ready and you want to feel better, don’t allow yourself to think about anything that you can’t see, taste, touch, smell or feel for 15 minutes.
Your anger is in the past about something that’s already been said, it’s not about what’s going on right this minute so focusing only on things that involve your senses keeps you grounded in the now instead of living in the past.
FOUR: You’re not obligated to think every thought your brain gives you to think about. It is totally your choice which thoughts you think and which ones you don’t so when your brain gives you thoughts/suggestions as to things you can think about - CHOOSE the ones you like and discard the rest.
FIVE: What’s going on around you is your indicator as to the thoughts you’ve been thinking and the way you’ve been feeling.
The fact that your mother or anyone would say something like that to you is your indicator that you’ve been thinking low energy thoughts and having low energy feelings therefore you’ve attracted low energy comments into your life.
Make note of it and now improve your thoughts so that your feelings will improve so that what you’re attracting back to you are things that you want, not crap that pisses you off and makes you feel bad.
Focus on being happy - focus on things you like and the Universe will bring to you people who match that. Visualize the group you want to be in, but mostly focus on being happy and doing things you like to do.
I answer the ones that resonate with me - the ones I’m most knowledgeable about. I’m not going to BS an answer just for the sake of answering as I want to be helpful to the person asking the question.
I get asked more questions than I can answer - tonight there are several I have already answered and many more I’m going to, but I’m tired right this very minute as it’s 12:30am so I’m going to go to bed.
If I haven’t answered your question - don’t take it personal, maybe I didn’t see the question when you asked it the last time, maybe it didn’t resonate with me or maybe it wasn’t something I’m familiar with.
Ask me again so I’ll see it when I wake up tomorrow.
I haven’t read The Power - Now I’m going to have to.
Thanks for telling me about it!
Meditate and visualize her being surrounded by love.
Be there for her when she’s ready to talk.
Don’t stop trying to reach her, but don’t get upset if she’s not available for a while.
You’re sweet and a good friend - :)